Kuok Ker

fren well, human common mistakes like- 1. self always right n others are wrong . 2. why should i always on losing side? 3. why must always punctual instead of others. 4 i could not border others bcoz as fas as i m happy. 5. How to make self along to b winner all the time. See how selfish is a person? 6. Scolded other without realize own problem bcoz self right.

Fren, As far as we love our country is concerned, let's move out from micro or individually and single person who wants to make his/hers own country to be much better tomorrow k? I think it is good enough rather than we look into the macro scope and which is really uncontrollable by an individual, my fren. How and what is to be considered as micro in this discussion? micro means the person is the one that must sincerely try to make him/her self does not create havoc to their community per se and also must try hard to get him to be acceptable by even their next door fren only ... it is good enough. Lay man term of micro scope means - be managed own self as an unit in one community and this  is bond to the education background, the environment and life objective of one.

Fren, Aren't we Merdeka ye?!  Independent but not independently of people mind and heart k? Well, Merdeka in term of  infrastructure and outlook or...but internally, we are not really independently to make judgment on one person's freedom and the person's tolerance level within other individuals overall. Merdeka, we shouted, merdeka we celebrated, merdeka we are on leave but we not really merdeka in mind and movement from majority, so how man? Sad and worried - worried because I had the unsafe feelings since then... and sad because we could not move forward as other did or done or even faster than us, how man? In reality, we are merdeka ok ok ok Independent and bravo independent to Malaysia.

Fren,  Merdeka pada 31hb Ogos ... Hari Malaysia pada setiap 16hb September... ada membawa apa- apa maksud dan makna tak pada setiap warga negara Malaysia? Ada ... Tak ada.... ada ? A....da...! Buat masa ini, keadaan tahap toleransi antara semua lapisan masyarakat Malaysia agak semakin menurun le- ini angkara orang politik atau pengaruh politicians yang menjadikan sebegittu rupa? atau.... memang sudah tepu semangat toleransi masyarakat? Sebenarnya satu agenda yang lebih mustahak yang harus dibenteras ialah keadaan ekonomi satu dunia amnya dan khususnya negara yang dicintai ini buat masa ini dan seterusnya.... Apa akan jadi? apa akan jadi nanti sekiranya ekonomi terus merosot walaupun telah dimaklumkan (atau diwar- warkan) ekonomi negara bukannya  teruk sangat tapi ..... kerisauan tetap berlaku walaupun kenyataannya siapa le saya ni - insan yang kerdil dan biasa namun sebagai seorang rakyat Malaysia... prihatin mengenai persoalan pokok ini mestilah difikir- fikirk...

Fren, Today, many people or majority of them would said that a person must work smart instead of work hard yeah... sound liked correct and appropriate? Well, work smart? Would you please define it operationally and not just said it for the sake of own opinion but it should come with mechanism of it where else, work hard mean simple as work towards to get the work/s done or complete the mission at the end of a day. Work hard means there is nothing come free, there is nothing come easy or there is no way to take advantages on other to achieve own objective instead of workout  with self own afford and sweat as well okay! Work for the betterment with learning process and also accumulative of time as experiences are concerned. Work hard and not work smart unless there is an operational definition on what is work smart - if some one said, work smart is work with the help of electronic (PC, internet etc)  then that actually means work with helping by gadgets or electronic ...

Fren, Apa dah jadi? Apa sudah jadi kepada manusia ye? Apa dia? Nak dikatakan tak bertamaddun... Tidak kan? Nak kata bertamaddun sangat pun tidak? Jadi apa sebenarnya dah jadi?  Siapa boleh tolong jawapkan apa dah jadi? Pokoknya senang... duniawi mengatasi kebenaran dan kebenaran itu hanya mengikut majoriti yang tak bertamaddun... itu dia yang terjadi, menjadi- jadi serta terus menjadi selagi manusia ini yang "tamak haloba" tanpa memikir akibat atau kesannya terhadap kemanusiaan ini. Paham tak apa yang diceritakan? Tak ? ..Ye? ..... Tak ?... pun tak apa le ok asalkan bahagia cukup le. Apa dah jadi, apa nak jadi ...jadi le... asalkan bahagia dengan definisi tersendiri (oleh kumpulan yang umpama katak di bawah tempurung atau teropong yeah!!!) dah dah  dah roger.

Fren, Keluhan demi keluhan dan mengeluh le selama - lamanya namun mustahir untuk "terjawab" akan apa - apa yang dikeluhkan sebabnya lumrah dan duniawi adalah melebihi kekuatan umat atau insan manusia di dunia nyata ini.... inilah jawaban untuk segala - gala yang berlaku baik untuk sekarang mahupun masa akan datang selagi berada  dalam benua ini. Justerunya, Yang kaya akan terus kaya menggila dan yang miskin asyik mengeluh nasib mereka menggila jua... ini le duniawi dan ini le kenyataan hidup manusia dalam bumi ini kan? Kenapa ye??? Sebagai kesimpulan, biar le apa berlaku dan akan berlaku, selagi gelar diri ini manusia... usaha, tekun dan menjagai diri elok- elok sambil menjaga kesejahteraan keluarga diri dan ketenteraman persekitaran diri... cukup le apa nak lagi..?

Fren, I was officially received one letter to inform me that one of my post graduates failed in his amendment stage after the Master's Viva (One year time given to him) and I was the candidate's co- supervisor. Ai ya ya Why ? What happened?  Let me put it this way: This candidate never ever comes to get my advice or consultation since then even though his candidacy for Master degree was since 2009 ... (now 2015) you see! I am always around my working place with him and perhaps I supervised many candidates right from degree, master or even PhD students. To be more precise, I was actually successfully graduated one PhD candidate recently (2015) so what wrong with this guy? I would like to say that nowadays people are looking for easy way to go out? Perhaps easy way to get whatever they wish to without seriously workout their own (by their own affords) but they are try ing with gaining others sympathy and that's ok. When they failed to gain whatever they wish, t...

Fren, I was in South Korea - Itawon, Seoul for 10 days time and it was the most enjoyable and most happy days because I could know the Seoul better as well as getting to know "someone" better as well. Beside our official duties, we visited almost all the tourism spots surrounding the Seoul like their palaces, their Metrod line transportation which was planned by her was considered very detail and very well. Dong-Tae- Mon, Nam Tae Mon, Olympic stadium, World cup stadium and their national fitness center etc as well as their local food. Wonderful trip and happy hours over there which I think was sweet memories trip at this moment in my life ok. On top of the succeed signing agreement with varies universities, we had the chance to investigate the cultural and the socio- economic of Seoul perhaps the South Korea and they are really considered as one of the developed countries in Asia or perhaps in the world because they are really planned well through their transportat...

Fren, Good day to all and I am very glad to see or to feel the materialization of one "big" project from my organization with outside world perhaps like -  South Korea?! Well, signing the Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) between Universities or Higher Educational Institution is an event which,  beneficial goes to either their undergraduates, post graduates or even their organization's academia and this is happening to my organization as well so it is very glad and it is very proud about my organization's achievement ok. South Korea is the country that our organization ahead to have changing expertise or changing ideas vice verse and there are 3 Higher Educational Institutions and 1 Institution of Sports Science would be together in "helping'' hands for future innovation and venturing to create "outcome/s. Work out very hard by many parties such as: initiator, superiors of the initiator and International Affair Department and never for...

Fren, When I was having my morning jog in one of the beautiful lake gardens around my working place one day, there was a gentleman who said to me " Keep Moving" while we met each other crossing face to face and this word means thousand meanings to me from the mouth of jogger especially, right? Well, keep moving means go on and on and at the same time I myself feedback to him as yes, yes yes why not - slow and steady to the gentleman - means I supported his Keep Moving momentum yeah. Perhaps, keep moving could be motto for everyone to carry on their life consistently without fail or even dare to fail when facing troubles or problems in one's life okay! Keep moving and keep going the whole world's for having  peaceful minds wanted too, my fren. 

Fren, In love = in relationship with someone really consider and concerned to each other no matter whatever stuffs between and within them. It is feeling good and really good feelings either fall in love or being love by another party okay, fren? In love is actually also must come with full responsibilities (both party), right? Yes, definitely it must not getting together and taking advantages on one party alone then that is not in love at all ok! In love, needs time to proven out the relationship and it is cruel matter if there is "somethings misplace " somewhere and that's the end of one who is In Love yeah, right? 

Fren, In - charge of one academia's journal publication is no joke at all because at the end of the day, one of the main objectives or I would say that the main target of the person in charge is is to get the journal status upgraded to higher status as far as the end outcome is concerned, right? Work very hard and work very serious too but it could be the matter of time and chance given to, so I still in the process of  "fighting" ! Well, competencies of the journal is up the par and common conditions also fulfilled of the higher status required and once come to application to upgrade the journal that actually needed other party to help or to push it ahead to the target set okay? As far as Editor in Chief whose responsibilities are concerned, I played my sustainable roles toward the objective and working hard enough with FOC basis to say it then what else I expected ? Just let's it be and try, try try or tan tan tan only yeah. 

Fren, Opinion = that which a person thinks about somethings. Advice = opinion give by a person to another on how that other should behave or act. (Longman Dictionary of Contemporary English , 1978) So, please my fren: 1. Do not think too much.., 2. Do not think too hard... 3. Relax and just enjoy : a) whatever yo have; whatever you do. b) Wherever you go or wanted to go. c) Whoever you go with too.  Sorry fren but Thank you for all sweet memories of togetherness.  Last but not least, wishing you all the best forever. Bye. 

Fren, Having to know that peaceful mind or peaceful life is good and it is wonderful in certain case but there is nothing better to do to get into "backyard" and to make self uncertainty again my fren. Why? Why and tell me why? Well, friendly speaking, I really want to get someone to be my life companion but there is always something go wrong  and for nothing it could not be accomplished - it is so complicated and this need time again to really think over to have any relationships for the coming days, I definitely need to workout or let myself  really "free"' or more "understanding others" - not easy man.  I said nothing better to do was just killing myself and sorry to party that I was hurting with unknowing reason. I feel sad and somber at this moment but can't help right? yeah  

April Fool ? or 1st of April every year is claim to be one of the special days and it is called : April Fool Day. It is wisely and practicing the playful jokes or action of oversea people because their culture is allowing them to go on this fooling scenario for the particular day concerned but unfortunate that it is not conjoin or suitable with Eastern country's culture practices and this is the "Why" unnecessarily hectic or stress happened. For instance, the claimed of one achievement that was no base at all in the local news, it makes such  a "big Fool" of the country, state or the individuals by announcing untrue claiming all over the country so what a fool man ok! The question here is, do you think that the person who make this incidence liked a real story was cause by the Day? or it was too eager and fool to claim their own self succeed by blindly say so. Well, this was embarrass not only the one's family, district, state and as well as the who...

GST is not Good and Service Tax here but it is or could be Good Strategy Technique in life span for everyone around the world... right? Why not...?  Life goes on as time goes on and the fact is we must know how to 1. think rationally; 2. plan out accordingly and 3. just do it to whatsoever planned ok? GST - shows someone who is smart and deserve the right way of life that the person wanted to and  it is not too dependence or hanging in the bush and yell for help ... help yourself before you really needed or critical for help my fren ok? Last but not least, the question is what else could you do ? Just accepted the reality of implemented GST and you face it with GST suggested... no other choice in this case ok. Bye.

Well, getting new friend? What so big deal about it, my friend? What is going on and what is the expectation? First thing come first, getting to know someone is actually no specific expectation ok! other wise it could become very tension or pressure matter because I just got to know one new friend especially other gender per se. Just be friend and nice to talk to each other and we are feel free to chit chat or discuss whatsoever wanted to... see how wonderful friend is this, right?  Secondly, it is no big deal because it is very personal matter and as long as a friend is concerned, everything getting well and smooth knowing each other and wishing  to meet or see each other more often, that's all.  Lastly, we talked over practically all about self to let both parties knowing better all our  past history on self so that we gained understanding better after this ok! We shared ideas and we shared happiness as well as "sour" moment too. 

Well, I tried out once again and this time the outcome was very positive... What ?... and what up ooi? This time, my move is just to have one companion friend, you see... after 5 years of single and available duration. In reality, you know, I am not confident at all with so called "mutual friend" from internet or whatsoever linkages from on line sake and yet this time I gave myself a "try" and seriously just a try ... what happened was I got one and so far every thing are going so smooth and the flow is very positive even after 2 weeks getting  along with okay so I will go on and on and see what will happen then. We talked about past, we discuss about all sort of problem or things around especially getting to know each other better and we even discuss about future and there is always new topic to discuss and talk about... until sore throat? Well... no no no just joking... Try and no harm to try if you really wanted someone or something and workout, thin...

Fren, Time fly like no business and nobody could "turn it" or else it might be the end of the world yeah Yeah!  So, you know what to do? Appreciated whatever around you and workout whenever you could or can be done, do not regret about it after denying your abilities ok! Well, time to wake up and time to workout and time to go on entire life and time to rest we needed to rest. Time...time ...time so manage it well and feeling good about time we have all the time ok my fren. ha ha ha hi hi hi.

Fren, Hope and looking for betterment? Is it possible? Is it relevance at this moment? Is it unpredictable thing? Is it so hard to be better day or better life? Is it consider luxury when we hope for betterment? Is it right at the corner? Is it somewhere out there, somewhere and do not know it? Is it impossible and just smile for it? You see, it is a lot of unknown answers for all sort of questions at this state of time, my fren? Why? How? How can? and Where to find or starting point? Nobody could tell me ok Fren! So, come to the conclusion, play our own roles and be healthy to go on daily activities and feel happy and peaceful in mind or mind our own business enough, my fren.

Fren, Chinese New year (CNY) of 2015 is near and close to heart of every single Chinese race in Malaysia especially and all over the world, right? However, in reality there is not being able to celebrate by every single one because there are circumstances or consequences cause by nature disaster or Man kind chaos ok! Well, as a man who live in this fortunately and wonderful country like Malaysia , we could celebrate all together without really discriminate (if so by some groups) but for sure those will be public holidays for all Malaysians. Up to individuals who has other races friends or not at all. Up to individuals who uphold certain ideologies by them in order to stay peacefully and harmonies with the concept of mutual understanding and understood in fact for this country prosperity and moving forwards to face the world's scenario as a man kind in this lovely land of us. CNY 15 yeah !

Fren, Idea baharu? Apa yang baharu sangat tu? tak ada ... tak ada cuma renungan sahaja my fren. Idea baharu turut mengikut semasa serta keadaan, kalu tak haya tinggal idea baharu le. Bila disebut idea baharu, maka tindakan susuran harus dituruti ok kalu tak tak ada tak ada... tak ada idea le. Apabila sesuatu idea baharu dikehendaki maka manusia boleh fikir dan tahu fikir namun manusia turut tak nak memberi pengiktirafan kepada si anu yang mengeluarkan idea baharu tu, jadi apa yang nak dan akan berlaku ye? Tak apa dan tak ada apa- apa jadinya. Bye.

Well, early of year 2015, by right it should be brand new for everyone? Am I right? or ... never mind, as long as you full with brand new idea or spiritually or own faithfulness then it is good for you my fren. Let's pray hard and let's plan ahead so that we will go on our daily life with peaceful mind and fulfilled with tones of achievements at the end of every single day (if possible) which, I mean if we fail to plan means that we plan to fail, right? Personally, plan does not mean like novel things to do but it is just could be guidance for our life's journey so and so that we have clear direction to ahead or else, if you still uphold that the theory of no plan is considered plan then ... I have no say because it is your life anyway right, my fren?