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Fren, Apa itu sabar= patience - the ability a to wait for something calmly for a long time (Longman Dic, 1978) so once we say be patience mean wait or "Tan" in hokkian dialect and sabar in bahasa ok. In other words, there is any the person can improve or workout except patiently see the how right? Patience needs dedication as well as inner believe in "religion thought"? according to individual's belief ok and at the end of the day, a person might and might not gain what the person aim to, right? As far as patience is concerned, my own experience is the person will get what the person wants if the seriousness and work consistently all workout with the using the person subconscious and conscious mind then it will happen one day, is the matter of when? (time) Last but not least, patience is sometime or to me it is most of the time the party who has the authority to make the end result what could the person gain, is the one who play "dirty" and/or misint...

Fren, Very sad fren, why? Apa daya Mu!! Sebelah orang memang hutang sekeliling pinggang dan orang sebelah lagi nak enjoy saja - kononnya nak makan angin ke England ooi. Apa daya Mu? Orang sebelah yang kurang bertimbangrasa dengan orang sebelahnya serta nak saja ikut nafsu dirinya dengan tanpa prihatin pada orang sebelah jua. Apa jenis manusia ini? Apa daya Mu, insan yang tanpa boleh diajak berbincang khususnya masalah kewangan, susah nak berbincang untuk menghadapi masalah keluarga bersama namun insan ini hanya bulat-bulat hendak ditanggung oleh pihak suami saja, kalu ikut adat cina lama dah lama isteri ini kena cerai bertalak 3 dah! Apa daya Mu, lupa saja le selagi tidak perlu ditanggung perbelanjaan ke England ini oleh si suami cukup lah, apa daya Mu. Bahkata, senang boleh bersama- sama menukmati kesenangan tapi bila kesusahan ditanggung oleh si suami saja, dia peduli apa, apa daya si suami? Jadi apa daya Mu. Hairan sungguh apakah sebenarnya dia nak kahwin atau berumahtangga jika ...

Fren, As far as work is concerned, we need to enjoy whatever we do and whenever we do then only could say that your are enjoying working life. Well, after exercises done together with my students during athletic class as well as training methodology class, I felt great and releasede tension as well and at the same time, they enjoyed their lesson and became better listeners perhap, this is consider very happy and good time to me as a guru. Process of learning taken place and my core business be well taken care, whatelse to border or to worry in terms of work and this is really enjoying - man. Do you understand what am I talking about? No? Yes never mindlah.

Fren, Biar boss baharu mahupun boss lama- sama sahaja, kerja hakiki tetap kerja hakiki, kerja dengan hati dan jiwa yang ikhlas demi kebaikan anak-anak didikan itu adalah core business sebagai pensyarah, right? Yang lain terpulang kepada keprihatinan boss mana satu pun. Seperti kata orang: Lain orang lain rezeki dan memang lain boss lain kerenah itu sahaja, fren. Sistem memang dah lama ada, implementasi dan cara implementasi lain- lain terpulang kepada interpretasi boss baharu, betul? Sesudah mengetahui dendaan nasib untuk lima tahunlah, apa lagi nak dikatakan. Apatah lagi dah lebih kurang 23 tahun++ berkhidmat sebagai pegawai perkhidmatan kerajaan (Sek. rendah ke IPTA) tetap jadi mangsa sistem saja maka tak hairan dengan kerenah boss baharu ke atau boss lama ke - sama saja, reda menghadapi segala cabaran hidup namun tak akan lupa sama sekali intention to educate anak- anak didikan di mana jua saya berkhidmat- They are my clients and they are harapan bangsa masing-masing mahupun negar...

Fren, Lain orang lain rezeki, lain pentadbir lain kerenah. Lima tahun lah, lima tahun lah, lima tahun... Inilah dugaan nasib mereka yang berhajat nak belajar demi kebaikan atau peningkatan ilmu dalam career diri dan akan menyumbang balik ilmu kepada para pelajar mereka kelak tapi tapi tapi telah didenda dengan tak diberi peluang mendapat anjakan gaji untuk selama lima tahun dari tahun sipolan balik daripada cuti belajar itu walaupun PTK mereka pada paras 4/4 lah? Cuti belajar? aiyah- tak kisah samada mereka yang belajar dengan mode sepenuh tanggungan (Berbiasiswa penuh) atau mereka yang belajar cuma dengan cuti (2 tahun) tanpa biasiswa, apa jenis peraturan ini? Adakah atas prinsip "pukul rata" atau "pukul sama sekali" jadi adakah ini dikatakan kaedah menggalakkan para tenaga pengajar IPTA untuk melanjutkan pelajaran ke peringkat PhD atau master mereka demi peningkatan taraf IPTA secara amnya di Malaysia, tanah air kita? Aplikasi klausa (atas budibicara) oleh pent...

Fren, Tahniah kawan, masa kecapaian doktor falsafah anda telah tiba and nyata berlaku, tahniah sekali lagi kawan. So what? Apakah rancangan- atau perancangan anda selepas ini? No no No don't be too serious ok because I just joke only fren yeh yhe yeh. As far as caree part is concerned, our fren been offered promotion to senior post already, which I think is good and tahniah fren ok, berbaloi akan kecapaian anda ini betul? I tak berniat jahat but very happy atau kata orang tumpang gembira saja, janganlah marah kawan. Apa apa yang saya curahkan ini cuma perasaan diri saja, tak ada apa - apa niat kawan ok? Last but not least, si polan ini tengah tunngu keputusan muktamad yang seperti kawan tadi namun yang beza ketara ialah si polan ini belum berezeki ditawar promotion to senoir post dan agak jauh lagi setelah banyak kali cuba mencuba, tak apa kata orang belum ada rezeki tapi to the si polan cuma agak Karma tak baik gut so apa kesilapan sipolan ini ya? yeh yeh yeh sudahlah nasib you....

Fren, Recalled back the 11-9-09 was my VIVA date and now 4 months later, I am still waiting for the endorsement of Graduate School of my Ph.D University, time passed like no business and now my life goes on with changes in terms of relaxation in mentally as well as psychologically because hard time, dark time and time time time has temporary gone ok. However, in my career life, it is still consider very fresh and new eventhough I am contributing for 9 years in the existing system already so what I need to do is to work harder and I always need to depend on by chance or second chance that only I might get the opportunities to be shifted into new category as far as career improvement is concerned, but wil it happen? Nobody could tell me but... Last but not least, I work very hard and very serious in whatever I am doing especially in my core business over my varsity or faculty and let's it be ... ok? Yeh yeh yeh

Fren, Life and time will go on without much say or wait for anyone man, so when a person think that he or she would like to do some things good to own without cause other in trauble then do it fren. Do not waste your brilliant time fren. What I use to say is, do it with planned and consistently with progressively principle as well as hard work with patience and things will come to you or side you but...stressful life within certain time duration ok? Last but not least, in other point of view, if you think that you are satisfy with whatever you have and you are doing, getting or your life then be cool fren because life is alway depend on what you want it to be fren ok. Am I right? Yeh yeh yeh

Fren, Play- activity for amusement only esp among the young or to do things that pass the time pleasantly- Longman Dic, 1978. In terms of education context, the play is inclusively with the process of learning because in the playing activities themsleves which there should needed a party to plan, to guid and to even set the objective of play- the person that in this context is - the teacher? the coach? or the trainer... you may name them, well... Coaching as defined in sports context would be sound like: mainly improving performance in training by turning activities athletes do into learning situations, in a planned way , under guidance. Well from the play then it would intent to improve the play then in would involve the process of learning vice versa.

Fren, Happy new year - 2010, I wish everyone of my friend, relatives and family members are healthy, healthy and nothing beside healthy all the time. With the healthy body, mind and sole only you could move forward as what you want to, plan to or sudden to, right? 2010 as the new year coming together for us to make our life difference and it should bring new experience and new thought as well as new move into new era or hopefully that things would get better and better to every one of my friend, relatives and family members. Last but not least, do not take things for granted because anythings could happened in second of time especially related to health problem ok fren! Happy New Year and good day.