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Smile with heart

Fren, After long 9 years of battle and I reached victory at the ending of long 9 years, now after 3 years duration taken up to  really make my living style stable and even progressively improving self with whatsoever I have with my children and my home sweet home, ok? Well, now I smile with heart and I have wonderful life and career as well so that I could smile with full heart without regretted to my decision made as well as handling family stuffs. I carry on my duties as my children's parental, as their old friend, as their counselor  and of course as their banker yeah! I am in a very stable stage of  my career with some FOC posts and I really workout sincerely to get missions done for the betterment of my servicing organization and I never ever regretted to what I had done perhaps I feel glad and great ok.

Listen to own heart

Fren, Listen to our own view, mind and heart is always the way to do or to solve our own problem unless you have own consultant or friend who is really "intimate" or understanding you, right?  However, other people's view could be fine with the own self reviewing and justify with evidences as well because normally, individualism according the individual's view of point may cause you under stressful or tension life if the one's too dependence on other people's opinions. Moreover, one's definitely needs friend to be around and seem the one's spouse could be the friend but normally is not true because once a couple marriage and become not a good listener ok, right?

Common

Fren, Common, common is this the term that used to someone who likes to criticize other without any basis ... common le... common sense is no more common nowadays okay so there is not common anymore when someone wants to comment on someone else, my fren.  Watch out what you are going to comment or criticizing on even though is so call your good friend because anything could be twisted and turn unfriendly or thread to you when it is not in the right time or moment ok. Moreover, people nowadays is quite "defensive organism" and they try hard to defend on no matter whateverso happening even advice from other party especially "skin colour" was involved my fren. as the conclusion, watch out and careful whatever you wanted to comments with the concept of common le...

Sabar menghadapi dugaan

Fren, Relax and sabar bila menghadapi cabaran dan dugaan ok. Ini le yang selalu saya sebut- sebut, kena banyak bersabar kawan- kawan.. Kesabaran kan kehendak oleh ajaran agama - apa- apa sahaja agama selain daripada nereka yang fanatik atau ekstrem sj. Segelintir, namun segelintir inilah akan merosakkan segala- gala kebaikan yang telah diperlakukan, bukan ke begini rupa dalam kenyataan hidup? Sabar, cukup bersabar dan ucap lebih- lebih sebelum mengeluarkan hujah atau kata- kata dan selalunya yang bercakap kadang- kadang tak bermaksud begitu rupa tapi yang mendengar inilah yang menjadi- jadi. yeah 

Risau

Fren, Mungkin saya ini risau tak menentu gut? Risau 1: anak muda sekarang tak sudi menerima teguran "orang lama" yang lebih berpengalaman itu dengan hati yang rela hati. Risau 2: teguran yang sepatutnya positif boleh diinterpretkan sebagai kutukan dan yang negatif. Risau 3: hati sebagai seorang pendidik turut dipertikaikan objektif apa itu pembelajaran sebenar. Risau 4: unsur politik yang negatif dicampuraduk atau dah sebati dalam pelajaran atau pendidikan ye. Risau 5: apa lagi nak? - kucar kacir atau saling saling faham memahami ye. Risau 6: budaya menghormati "orang lama" atau ilmu telah makin tak penting bagi orang muda. Risau 7: lama- kelamaan "orang lama" akan dihalau atau disingkir kerana telah "Tua" dan tak berguna lagi oleh orang muda. Risau 8: Ketelitian dalam menyempurnakan tugas dah pudar dan tak dikehendaki oleh orang muda gut? Risau 9: mana nak pergi " orang lama" ini nanti ye? Risau 10: tak boleh menenteramkan diri dari...